Music and Stuff Like That

October 2, 1996




Last night Mark and I went to hear Martin Sexton at Johnny D's in Somerville. I'd heard Marty before but Mark hadn't and I was particularly eager to hear the songs Ned wrote with him. Ned's been talking about Marty's new album for ages.

The place was packed -probably 300 people. I spotted Ned right away with that outrageous striped straw hat and the pale orange scarf and powder blue shirt. I may have mentioned in this journal (or maybe I didn't) that Ned starts every conversation with "I gotta go". So after the ritual "I gotta go", Ned starts introducing me to all kinds of people whose names I will forget by tomorrow. Then he takes off to commune with Marty. Finally Ned gets up on stage and introduces Marty and the show is underway.

Great show. Marty can make more weird noises with his mouth than my 5 year old niece and my 8 year old niece combined! And do it soulfully. This guy is insanely great. The new songs (ie the Ned Claflin songs) are terrriffic. Worth staying out late for.

This afternoon in Starbuck's Ned told us the guy who books the spoken word nights at a couple of places {I better not name them} approached him 'cause Marty made such a big deal of Ned's songs, and wanted to book Ned for a reading. Cool. Then he asks me and Tom to come and read. Opening for Ned! I can't imagine a weirder experience. I hope he actually does make this happen.


I overslept this morning and was late for work at the cat shelter. I did call first but Eileen didn't tell anybody else so there was a bit of a panic. But I got there and cleaned feverishly. Roberta had already done Juliette's cage so I was spared the agony. But Mr. Spencer, who is normally lovey-dovey bit me! Not much damage but when I pulled my hand away I scraped my wrist on a rough part of the cage door and I have a huge painful scratch. People must think I'm abused by some really perverted monster.

Hop was kind of out of it today because he had dental work done yesterday. Cat dental work is well umm cat dental work. Wilbur's vet insists on general anesthesia. I don't know if the vets downstairs do but Hop sure looked like he'd been on a drug trip.

Jaguar sprayed the dirty laundry pile so it was really stinky when Tibet came over to pick it up. Hey, it could've been worse - he could've sprayed the clean laundry. He did it to the clean dishes in the dish drainer on me one day.

Two of the little feral kittens that were in the sick room moved to the front room today. They'll be adopted in no time.

Despite my not getting there until 9:30, everything was done by quarter to 12:00.


From the shelter to Starbucks and then to Ridgewood Cemetary to walk with Joan and Priscilla. Joan wanted to look for the grave of one of her elderly clients (she's a home health aide) who died recently. We asked at the cemetary office and found out that she was supposed to have been buried with her husband but she's not there! She was cremated and the ashes are sitting on a shelf somewhere. The cemetary guy didn't know what was going on or whether she was going to be buried here or in Haverhill or what. Very odd. So Joan didn't get the sense of closure she was looking for.

We had a great walk though, up and down lots of little hills and one big hill. We visited graves of people Joan had known, people Priscilla had known, relatives of Harold .... even some people neither had really known but one or both of them knew the person's life and death stories. I started to get a little weirded out. I have no plans for what will happen to my physical remains after death. My Dad is buried in his Dad's plot at a cemetary in Boston. Steven's ashes are scattered all over Connecticut. Kathleen's ashes are in a box in Kevin's living room (or were the last time I checked). Plenty of people know their stories.

So in the midst of all this remains reverie, it starts raining while the sun is still out. Well defined, soft raindrops, a long way apart. Pretty to look at but we've left Harold in his wheelchair at the top of the hill and Priscilla has the car keys so he's gonna get rained on if we don't hurry back. By the time we get to the top of the hill the rain has stopped again and Harold isn't wet after all. Priscilla and Harold head home. Joan heads off to do errands. I come home to clean Wilbur's box. Another small town day in North Andover.


In Sunday's entry I neglected to mention that I promised my Mac to Annette for Pride at Work, as soon as I get my new Mac 7600. "When'll that be?Christmas?" yeah maybe. I've been planning to buy a new Mac for almost a year and haven't done it yet. Now that the Rhode Island chapter of Pride at Work, and for all I know the entire national queer labor movement, is depending on the donation of my obsolete MacIIcx do I go ahead and order the 7600? No, I procrastinate. My family views my desire to purchase another Mac as a symptom of some serious mental illness. Can they have me committed for not buying a clone with "Intel Inside"? Is that in DSM-IV?

So now I've created real pressure to buy the new system, which makes the procrastination all the more satisfying :-) What good is procrastination if there's no deadline to squeeze against?

At some point, Annette will start calling me. Then I'll have to do something.


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